Negativity, it sucks. It is the easy choice but when is the easy choice the good and beneficial choice? Really, never. Some think that yelling horribly mean things at yourself will push you to be better. But, that is complete crap. Saying mean and negative things to yourself, thinking it will push you further is one of the silliest things I have ever heard. I never understood that thinking, even as a kid. It seems along the same line of thinking as “men should never cry” and things like that. Very barbaric and not helpful to oneself at all! So, today I tell you how to quiet that mean voice inside your head. Because it is the reason you are not moving on to better things!

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So, thrifting is one of my favorite things to do and it is something people are always asking me for advice on!

Thrifting can be so overwhelming and frustrating and I have perfected how to make it an enjoyable experience with these tips! I also discuss how to dress for your body so that you can feel more confident in your daily life! Most important tip! Watch the video below to check out all my tips on Thrifting!

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This week I just wanted to say how INCREDIBLY happy I am that this is my job. I get to help women love themselves for a living. It has always troubled me (since I was in middle school at least) that women are so unkind to themselves. The world is mean enough to us all, we don't need to be adding to the negativity towards ourselves!

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So, my security blanket is gone. I got rid of it. I got bored and decided it was time for a change. I had been thoroughly thinking through this decision to get rid of it for about a year, probably WAY more. But, I didn't seriously consider it until a few months ago. And then I kept telling myself and everyone around me I was doing it. I didn't know when but I was preparing myself for it. Then, one hot night in Shreveport, I was sitting with one of my best friends and husband and I just looked up and said I was doing it.

I was going to chop off ALL my hair.

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